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The Cost Of School Holidays

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School Holidays Cost

Nanny McTreehugger, guest blogger

Wow, the winter school holidays are almost upon us. What happened to these last two school terms? These days it feels as if the holidays are almost as long as the terms! So how do you survive them, the cost of school holidays? How do you survive the burden of economical commitments whilst also surviving three long weeks with kids? How do you survive the challenge of pleasing kids whilst also meeting the expectations of parents?

Further Reading: School Holidays: 10 Things The Kids Are Looking Forward To

Ok, maybe I’m a little envious of the kids. But wait, am I? I remember the holidays used to fly by when I was a kid. I would make the most of them and I didn’t necessarily need to be taken places to be kept occupied. I had the world’s biggest Barbie doll collection and a “floor-drobe” of dolls clothes that would make the Kardashians weep. By that I mean genuine tears, not the “paparazzi tears”.

The Cost Of Occupying Kids

My point is that while in no way do I begrudge my charges their long holidays, I have noticed that we often find ourselves half way through and the kids are already bored. It’s most likely because they are so used to rigorous school schedules and before, during and after school extra curricular activities. Their time is pre-organised and planned for them. Which means when they have time to themselves, they swing between moments of whining about being bored or hungry or feeling disenfranchised over the delegation of equitable leisure time spent on the computer, iPad and TV. Sometimes it seems they’re so upset that their actions look set to stage a riot.

The Financial Cost

What’s more, school holidays are expensive! Traditional kid-friendly activities such as movies, bowling, laser tag and shopping centre entertainment have one sole purpose, to leech your wallets faster than a Dyson vacuum. Think kids want to be taken to the bowling alley to bowl? No way, it’s more a matter of them halfheartedly tolerating one game of bowling in order to make their pilgrimage to the biggest money sucker of all; the games room. That mecca of addictive token-operated virtual speedways and other old school stuff like table hockey, foosball, mini basketball hoops, and the dreaded claw machine. This contraption, along with its buddies the gumball and small toy dispensers (which at least guarantee you something for your coins) are the scourge of the retail world, the Venus flytrap of shopping centres, movie theatres and play gyms.

The Cost Of Meeting Expectations

To be honest, in some ways it was easier when I had more say in what we do during the school holidays. Because in the past few months the kids’ parents, who are very goal driven, have been quite insistent that they [the kids] make use of their time constructively. They’re given weekly goals they must achieve. No TV is allowed during the week, there are expectations placed upon mandatory exercise and a strong push for them to pursue intellectual pursuits. This translates to me being obliged to pack up the kids and trek them through university campuses, museums and other ‘intellectual’ places of interest. Mind you, museums are fun. Ask the kids and so too is the gift shop.

The Cost Of Balancing The Books

Personally, I believe we should enjoy some balance between activities and “chill time”. I’m all for letting kids be kids. Do I want them lolling around doing nothing but whine and tattle for almost three weeks? No. More specifically, the answer to that is a clear “I’d rather be dragged off by my fingernails by a flock of hungry magpies”.

So how have I learned to balance the parents’ wishes whilst also appeasing tired children? How have I learned to survive the cost of school holidays?

The answer? Well it’s still a work in progress. But in the interim, I’ve attempted to find that perfect compromise between free entertainment and allowing the kids a bit of a concession. We’re on a mission to find material gain that does not cost the earth. Think two dollar shops for example. Although just make sure the one you visit has a quick exit to the car park so you can be on your way to the non-coin operated outside world.

So as we gear up for the upcoming winter school holidays, the majority of us frantically trying to fill three weeks of kid appropriate activities, I’m on a mission to help you out. Join me next week when I share my list of things to do in and around Sydney with kids. It’s set to be a list of kid-friendly activities to appease both kids and parents, whilst also keeping the supervising adults in good spirits!

What’s your usual school holiday routine? Do you dread them or wait with fevered anticipation for the long days no longer subject to school routines and extra curricular scheduling?

Nanny McTreehugger

*Please feel free to email me at NannyMctreehugger@gmail.com with any suggestions, queries or just general expressions of empathy!

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For more on Nanny McTreehugger, you can read her previous guest post adventures with kids in A Modern Day Nanny. For more on school holiday fun, here’s 10 Things The Kids Are Looking Forward To These School Holidays.

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June 20, 2014 By Hope @ Nanny Shecando Filed Under: Nanny Life

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  1. Marianne @kidsrecipesandorganisedchaos says

    June 22, 2014 at 9:56 pm

    It really is such a juggling act of giving them activities and letting them fill in their own time! We always organise catch ups with cousins who they don’t see regularly during the school term. We always get one movie in (I found our local smaller cinema has holiday specials so usually around$10/ticket, and isn’t in a shopping centre, so no additional spending). I will often buy a new pack of coloured pens or textures for drawing plus a visit in to see dad at work. Another good tip is checking out the city guide to free kids activities (although I rarely actually get to these!)
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    • Nanny McTreehugger says

      June 25, 2014 at 9:03 am

      Agreed Marianne, if you can get other kids to join in on your activities, and a few other adults for your sanity of course, it makes such a difference! Win-win for everyone!!!!

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    • Hope @ Nanny Shecando says

      July 1, 2014 at 10:35 am

      You’re dead right with finding a smaller local cinema, they’re often much cheaper and friendlier places for small kids! And yes, cousins and play dates really are life savers. xx
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  2. Norah Colvin says

    June 22, 2014 at 8:51 pm

    Three weeks holiday! Wow! We get only 2 in Queensland. I’m sure you will find many wonderful ways of keeping the children entertained and occupied during the holidays. I’m sure they are looking forward to a bit of down-time at home, just chilling out, playing with their toys, and reading their books. A little bit of free time to daydream, think creatively, find pictures in the clouds never hurt anyone. It’s good for children to have some self-directed time for a while. I have some suggestions about how to incorporate reading, writing and mathematical thinking into holiday activities. The suggestions can be accessed through links on my website: http://norahcolvin.com/teaching-and-learning-resources/ I hope you have a wonderful ‘holiday’ and enjoy it just as much as the children will! 🙂
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    • Nanny McTreehugger says

      June 25, 2014 at 9:19 am

      Actually Norah, only 2 to 2 1/2 weeks is standard in NSW, but some of the private schools are into short terms and long holidays! I always joke that the schools want to hand the kids back as much as they can LOL.

      I totally get what you mean about engaging the kids’ imaginations, honestly, they are so over-stimulated by technology that they don’t develop an appreciation for the simple stuff, and I think that’s really, really important, if for no other reason than to get them to think and focus…..while feeling relaxed, as well as develop their ability to be able tolerate not being stimulated and entertained every waking moment and be able to “just be”

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    • Hope @ Nanny Shecando says

      July 1, 2014 at 10:37 am

      We sure have been enjoying some down time Norah. I’m lucky that the girls are very much home bodies and each have their own passions, be it craft of music or reading. So long lazy days with cups of teas and helping the girls to complete their own pursuits really is rather relaxing and a nice change from the norm. Thanks for the resources, will check it out!
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  3. Lucy @ Bake Play Smile says

    June 22, 2014 at 2:02 pm

    Oh no!!! The holidays don’t go forever… trust me (well thats from my teacher perspective anyway!). I think by the end of 10 weeks (especially during winter) everyone is more than ready for a break! Enjoy the holidays… PS – love the ‘floor-drobe’ hahaha xxx
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    • Norah Colvin says

      June 22, 2014 at 8:44 pm

      I agree. I thought the floor-drobe was very good! 🙂 And from a teacher’s perspective, I agree about the holidays! Half of them are spent preparing for the next term anyway!
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    • Nanny McTreehugger says

      June 25, 2014 at 9:24 am

      Just as I suspected Lucy, I think the teachers need a break, and you know something? It is a well deserved break, I take off my hat to teachers, not just for the wonderful work they do moulding young minds, but also all the additional responsibilities and restrictions in this litigatious society….teachers are a special bunch!

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    • Nanny McTreehugger says

      June 25, 2014 at 9:27 am

      Thanks ladies, I confess….I wish I’d coined the term “floordrobe”, but I heard it from a friend (and I am guilty of a floordrobe myself, but don’t tell the kids!)

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    • Hope @ Nanny Shecando says

      July 1, 2014 at 10:35 am

      You’re right, from a teacher’s perspective they simply aren’t long enough. Especially when you’ve got plenty of work to do and lesson plans to finalise for the next term!
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